Monday, 5 October 2015

9 People Who Proved Success Is The Best Revenge


Bury all the people who didn’t believe in you with a smile: Success is the best revenge. 
If there’s one thing to remember when it comes to the general population, it’s this: People judge too much. They might make some comments or pass some judgments that affect us mentally. Of course, how we are affected by the people who throw aggression at us, is entirely up to us.
Living a happy life is a delicate combination of going with the flow and sometimes, swimming against the current. You cannot do only one thing out of these two. I know it feels very bad and difficult to be disliked, to be not accepted, to be belittled, but just hang in there because you are not alone, and the best is yet to come.
History is replete with such kinds of people who proved themselves in spite of what others believed about them. They never let anyone’s opinion affect them and they went beyond the conventional and proved their haters wrong; they succeeded not because they thought about the people who let them down, but because they believed in themselves.
Let’s have a look at their stories.

1. Walt Disney: Fired from the newspaper company because apparently, he ‘lacked’ creativity.

At the age of 7, he sold some of his sketches to his neighbors. His interests in art and drawing were apparent. While attending McKinley High School in Chicago, he used to work diligently in the art and photography field. He was then hired at the Kansas City Star newspaper. Later, the newspaper company fired him because they thought he ‘lacked creativity’. After that, Disney started a number of businesses that didn’t last too long and ended with bankruptcy and failure.
After several trials and tribulations, and also with very little money, Disney’s persistence paid off. His works, which were a reflection of his brilliant animation skills, were selected from Motion Pictures in 1928 and thus, Mickey Mouse was born.
Awards – He won 26 Academy Awards (Oscars). He holds the record for most Academy Awards won by any individual in the history.
And yes, he not only bought the newspaper company that fired him, he also bought ABC, the company that owned the newspaper company.
Fact Source & 2

2. Michael Jordan: Rejected from his high school basketball team

Also known as MJ, he is an American professional basketball player. Most people won’t believe that the person lauded as the best basketball player of all times was rejected from his high school basketball team. However, according to Forbes, it is just a myth and it persists because it inspires athletes from all over the world to work hard even when they face failure.
Whether it’s true or not, is a different question. But, luckily, that didn’t happen and it didn’t prove to be a setback. He also won the Most Valuable Player Award 5 times.

3. Arunabh Kumar: Got rejected by the company, MTV India

You know this guy right? The much acclaimed Yogi from the TVF Pitchers? He was unhappy that Indian Television industry didn’t have content rich shows. So, he approached the then most popular youth-oriented channel – MTV India. He expressed that he is keen to start something which is content rich. MTV rejected his idea.
After this, he started his own modest venture. Fast forward to the year 2015, and he has 1,096,581 subscribers to his YouTube channel. He is now known as The Qtiyapa Guy.
In his own words, ”When MTV rejected the idea, I think that was the best rejection of my life. Youth channels told me Indian youth doesn’t want to watch this. I wanted to prove them wrong. Had they accepted, the idea would have ended up in some maximum 10 to 15 episodes.”

4. Steve Jobs: Got fired from his own company

All of us know his story, don’t we? Steve Jobs recruited Pepsi executive John Sculley to run Apple. In 1985, Sculley convinced the board to sideline Jobs. After being fired, Steve Jobs built a company called NeXT, which was acquired by Apple in $400 million in 1997. It also gave Steve Jobs control of the company again and the rest is history.
While giving a Stanford Commencement Speech in the year 2005, “I didn’t see it then, but getting fired from Apple was the best thing that could have ever happened to me. The heaviness of being successful was replaced by the lightness of being a beginner again. It freed me to enter one of the most creative periods of my life.”

5. Sania Mirza: Targetted because of her clothes and marriage to Shoaib Malik

The famous Indian Tennis player.
The year 2005: Her tennis clothes were ‘un-Islamic’ and ‘corrupting’, according to a Muslim scholar. Also, when she spoke about ‘safe sex’ at a conference, people said that she was ‘corrupting influence on the youth.’
The year 2010: When she married the Pakistani cricketer, Shoaib Malik, people called her a traitor, tweeted abuses and also sent her death threats. She was also called Pakistan’s daughter in law.
The year 2015: She became the first Indian to win a Grand Slam in Women’s Doubles at Wimbledon. She was awarded the Rajiv Gandhi Khel Ratna on August 29, 2015.
Fact Source 2

6. Steven Spielberg: Rejected from the USC school 3 times

He is known for his many famous films like Schindler’s list, Jurassic Park, Indiana Jones. He is a very famous American director, producer, and a screenwriter.
Back then, the University of Southern California’s School of Cinematic Arts rejected him thrice because the Admissions Officer deemed his C-level grade average too low. After this, he went on to seek education from elsewhere and he made his way into the industry by directing Jaws, E.T.: The Extra-Terrestrial, and the Indiana Jones series.
He was always driven to make great movies. He is now worth over $1 billion to his production company Dreamworks.
After his success, he was invited by USC (the school that rejected him) to accept an honorary degree. Spielberg agreed but only on one condition – He would only accept if the person who had rejected him, signed the degree himself!

7. J.K Rowling: Got fired from a company, failed marriage, dependent child

Who doesn’t know her? But before the success of Harry Potter, Rowling worked as a secretary in Amnesty International. She had laid the foundation of Harry Potter in her mind – the characters and all the situations that he would be faced with. All that daydreaming led to her getting fired. During this time, she was married.
After some years, she got divorced. And 7 years after graduating from her university, having a dependent child and, a failed marriage, Rowling saw herself as a failure. She described her failure as liberating because it allowed her to focus on writing. And the rest is history.
After the success of Harry Potter, she was named the Most Influential Woman in Britain and also ranked 48th most powerful celebrity of 2007 by Forbes.

8. Ratan Tata’s revenge on Ford by buying JLR

Back in the year 1999, Ratan Tata went to Ford to offer a deal to sell Tata’s motor division to Ford but was denied with a humiliating response from Ford officials. He decided to seek help from Ford, who showed interest. But the 3-hour meeting didn’t go that well and Ford humiliated Tata Motors. Ford executives even said that they would be doing a huge favor to Tata if they buy their passenger car division.
They were asked this question – “You do not know anything, why did you start the passenger car division at all?”
Ratan Tata was disgraced after this meeting and he left the room. Nine years later, in 2008, Ford was reeling in bankruptcy and they had to let go of their iconic Jaguar and Land-Rover brands for $2.3 billion. And guess who bought it? Ratan Tata. Ford chairman Bill Ford thanked Ratan Tata by saying “you are doing us a big favor by buying JLR.”

9. Brian Acton: Got rejected from Facebook, Twitter, and founded Whatsapp

Along with Jan Koum, Brian Acton co-founded the very popular social messenger, Whatsapp. For 9 years, they worked together at Yahoo. In 2007, Koum and Acton left Yahoo and took a year off. After that, both of them applied to Facebook and failed. Brian was denied a job both, at Twitter and Facebook.
In the year 2014, Facebook acquired Whatsapp for $19 billion, which was its biggest acquisition ever. It must have felt good to Brian. According to Brian, Facebook taught him a wonderful lesson.
Their lives weren’t easy, but they never chose the easy path. They kept moving despite facing many obstacles. :)
Aren’t you feeling inspired now?

Thursday, 1 October 2015

30 Things You Should Own Before You Turn 30

Life is short and we probably don't get to do everything we want. However, there are moments and things we can savour that make life worth living. From the time we are born, there are certain things that leave a mark on us, good or bad, and they are worth remembering forever. Memories are stored in our heads and sometimes through objects.
Here are 30 things we should all have owned own before turning 30:

1. Friends who are always there

There is no disputing that you can't live without friends. Plus, who else will make you do all the stupid things in life?
Source: tripzilla

2. An item you bought from your first earning

Be it something big or small, what you buy with your first earning will always be special to you.
Source: sportalink

3. A pet

You walk, play and sit together in the sands of time. And for them, you are their life.
Source: kanika sharma

4. A diary and a pen

Whether you write well or not, no one can judge you. For those are your thoughts and they need to be told to at least a piece of paper if no one else.
Source: magic4walls

5. Ticket stub from your first concert

Everyone has a story tell of their first concert. The experience of jumping and waving hands with complete strangers knowing they love what you love is an eye opener.
Source: icollector

6. A shirt/dress that reminds of you of a happier past

Maybe you wore it on your first date or that special birthday party where all your friends came over or on a train where it got spoilt but you had the journey of a lifetime. Clothes lose their scent but never lose the memories attached.
Source: follo

7. A pair of jeans that you can wear everyday and to parties because they are just too comfortable

Worn out or not, your favourite pair of jeans have seen the inside of a club and the rough patches of a mountain side where they possibly tore as well. The comfort your favourite jeans offer is unparalleled.

8. A memory that can make you smile anytime

When you're feeling low, this is the most convenient way to make yourself feel better.
Source: tumblr

9. A family heirloom no matter how small it maybe

Because it never hurts to remember where you come from.
Source: geni

10. Shoes that have been loyal from beginning to end

Walk, run, play, jump, kick and they will still be loyal enough to be laced up no matter where you go.
Source: rediff

11. A pen friend

It is always wonderful to read how different life is beyond our personal world. 
Source: sbs

12. A photo of your first trip

Going beyond your daily geographical boundaries for the first time, without any worry and with the aim of just having fun, is something you can never, ever forget.
Source: blogspot

13. A hobby 

It does have to be your career. It has to be your relief. That thing which disconnects you from the world just so that it is you and that moment and no one else.
Source: nripulse

14. A vehicle

It does not have to be a car or motorbike. It can be a cycle as well. But driving or riding to where you have to go is one of the most self sufficient feelings in the world.
Source: indiaglitz

15. Some work of art

It can be a masterpiece on a canvas or a drawing from your childhood. It can be a letter you wrote to someone or a poem you jotted down for no reason at all. But it signifies your creativity and your will to think. 
Source: hotwallpaperz

16. A suit

One time or the other, you always need a suit in life.
Source: thewowstyle

17. An e-mail ID

There is something wrong if you don't have one already. We're in the digital age so you need something to keep up with the changing times.
Source: philipp wagner

18. A cassette or a CD of your favourite band

They are your favourite for a reason. Music can liberate the soul and no one can do that better than your favourite band.
Source: deviantart

19. A poster that livens up your room

It can be a band, a sportsman, a quote or anything that catches the eye. The beauty of it should be known to you even if to nobody else.
Source: pinterest

20. A collection of things you are passionate about

From stamps to rocks, collect what you want. The world has no say in what you can be passionate about. 
Source: wikihow

21. A random video recording with people you love

It can be the stupidest thing in the world. But it is proof that there was a moment, in time, when you were all together doing something. 
Source: thehindu

22. A backpack that has space for everything

From notebooks to clothes to every random thing you may never need. We all need to have that one backpack that we just pick up before going anywhere.

23. A watch that reminds you of a simpler time

Fancy or simple. An old device that tells time, reminds us of a simpler time when the device was probably new.
Source: wallpapermania

24. An ugly or silly photo of yourself when you were young

It just keeps you human, knowing you have come a long way.
Source: idiva

25. An item that reminds you of your childhood

Anything that can remind of your time in the world as an innocent toddler will keep you grounded forever.
Source: tellmeboss

26. A plan 

In case you don't have a plan for the future, at least have a plan to have a plan.
Source: idfl

27. A camera

Because some moments have to be captured.

28. A favourite book

A book speaks without talking. And your favourite one will always talk to you in a way no one can.
Source: movietarot

29. A token from your first relationship

It is the time when you first felt love. It may or may not have worked out but it did teach you a lot. 
Source: makeupandbeauty

30. A dream

Because without it, tomorrow will not be worth owning.